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Childbirth is an experience in a woman’s life that holds the power to transform her forever, passing through these powerful gates, remembering all the generations of women who walk with her.  She is never alone. ––  Suzanne Arns

TESTIMONIALS

From our first email exchange, I knew Alecia was the one; she possesses a very unique warmth and kindness that you don't often find, particularly in the city. Alecia provided companionship, moral support, and helpful suggestions during the long final days waiting for labor to begin and through the early hours of labor. She worked as a seamless partner with my husband, stepping in to help or leaving us alone together as needed, and all the while taking notes to give me later or keeping my family updated on our progress. Alecia will always hold a special place in my heart and I can't imagine my birth experience without her.
— Jessica

Alecia helped us with the birth of our twins (no Caesarean!) and for the first month after they were born. Her calm, smiling manner set the tone for the birth and the tone in our home. She helped me so much with the tandem/double breastfeeding and was encouraging and never judgmental. I really don't know what I would have done without her.
— Helen

When I decided to use a doula, I was already well into my third trimester and didn't know quite what to expect. The first meeting with Alecia was so helpful and informative, and my husband and I were more comfortable and confident knowing that hiring Alecia was the right thing to do. The morning that my contractions started, I called Alecia at 4:00 a.m., and she answered and guided me through my questions to determine if this was real labor. After a few hours, I called her back and she came over to be with me during my contractions. We got to the hospital and I was already 4 centimeters and 90% effaced. Alecia was so excited to hear that and her encouragement helped me realize that I was having a baby that day! My husband and Alecia were by my side the entire day making me feel as comfortable as possible by massaging my feet and hands. Also, Alecia suggested that I spend some time in the shower, which totally helped ease the contractions since I did not take any drugs to ease the pain. After I had completely dilated, it was time to push and that was the hardest part for me since my baby was in the posterior position. The doctor and nurses told me I wasn't pushing hard enough and I got really frustrated because I was exhausted, and I thought Dylan would never come out. I really wanted to give up and take some pain medicine or get a C-section or whatever would get Dylan out of me, but Alecia assured me that I was doing a great job and that I was almost done. By the time he was crowning, Alecia brought over a mirror to put in front of me to help me see how far I was. It really helped, and after 3-and-a-half hours of pushing, the nurse ran out of the room to get the doctor and Alecia and I looked at each other because we knew that Dylan was coming out right then! My son jumped into the world and landed on the bed in front of me with Alecia on one side and my husband on the other side. My husband ran out to get the doctor and Alecia picked up my son and placed him on my chest and at that moment, I was the happiest I have ever been! Even with the pain, it was all worth it! I tell everyone that I could not have done it without Alecia and my husband. She is worth every penny!
— Sara

"Lee Rocks!"
— Jon, father of two boys

"Lee made us feel very comfortable and anwered all of our questions."
— Julie

"With Lee's guidance and support, I was able to enjoy motherhood."
— Whitney

"What a help Annette was for me! It worked out so well to have her here- she brought the perfect balance of caring professionalism. Annette showed me what I didn't know that I didn't know, and then taught me to do it myself."
— Karin

"Thank God Annette was there--she is wonderful and absolutely invaluable...We really needed her support."
— Julia

Alecia worked with us as a postpartum doula in the first few weeks of our twins' life. We had no idea what to expect when we brought the babies home and Alecia really eased the transition to our new life with babies. I was recovering from a C-section and we have no family close by to help so we really needed some extra help. Alecia was very supportive of my decision to breastfeed. As well as taking care of the girls, she made sure that I was eating and resting enough - this was really important in those early sleep-deprived days. She also helped us with our babies' first bath, a nerve-wracking experience for us. On a practical level, she is super efficient, she really helped keep things in shape at home - helping with laundry, making mean avocado and chicken sandwiches, and general tidying and cleaning. Alecia has a wonderful calming presence that really helped us settle in back home. She has a very lovely manner that helped us get through those first few weeks.
— Lisa

My husband and I knew we wanted to have Alecia's assistance from our first meeting at Starbucks. She was so easy to know and emotionally available that we were completely comfortable with having her join our family for this joyous event. She was excited with us. During labor, Alecia grounded me. I felt strongly about not being medicated, but at that transition point it was so hard (of course)! Alecia kept me on track and helped maintain a level of confidence to get through it. I am so proud of our son's arrival. It was very close to our ideal. I met her as a doula, but trust her as a sister.
— Amy

You brightened everyday that you were with us as we learned from you and our baby how to be parents. Your smile and your loving attitude helped transform what could have been a really stressful period (“Oh, my God, is that normal?”) into something wonderful (“Yes, that’s normal!”)! Thanks for teaching us how to listen to what our baby was telling us, and showing us how to hold, swaddle, and soothe our baby—and how to take care of ourselves to be good parents!
— Ian and Deanna

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